Collaborative Law: An Overview

Collaborative Law is a means of dispute resolution whereby the parties and their attorneys work together to resolve the issues without involving or threatening adversarial litigation. Clients may opt out of the Collaborative Law process at any time so long as the...

Since We are Separated Now, Should We File Separate Tax Returns?

During the time that a couple is separated, and prior to the divorce decree, it can be quite confusing to determine how to file the income tax returns.   There are many filing statuses that seem to be available, but how do you know which one is right for...

A General Roadmap for the Collaborative Divorce Process

A General Roadmap for the Collaborative Divorce Process This article is adapted from “The Roadmap Of The Collaborative Divorce Process” by The Middle Tennessee Collaborative Alliance (MTCA) with Permission by the Interdisciplinary Collaborative Divorce Trainers...
Getting Started

Getting Started

Getting Started in the Collaborative Divorce Process Collaborative Divorce takes threats, hide-the ball tactics and court room battles off the table. It gives divorcing couples the choice to participate in a private, confidential process geared towards collective...

Will My Children Be OK?

This is a question I hear about 100% of the time when I am coaching a client or couple who are going through divorce and have children.  They want someone to assure them their children will come through the divorce without bruises and scars. Of course I cannot...

What Happens to Our Retirement Accounts Once We Divorce?

Deciding how to divide the retirement accounts, such as IRAs, 401(k)s and pensions is an important part of the divorce process.    Unlike closing a joint bank account and opening a new one in your own name, for example, dividing retirement assets can be a...

What are the Basics of Alimony?

Alimony is effectively a distribution of income from one spouse to another in a divorce.  It tries to alleviate any inequity in income earned by each spouse. There are “rule of thumb” equations to estimate alimony.  However it is difficult to assess a global...

How do we tell our children we are getting a divorce?

How are we going to tell the children?  The most common, and stress-filled questions I get from parents who are separating involve “who, what, where, when and how” information will be conveyed to their children that the family they have known is changing. ...